Bengaluru: Dark Side of Techie Life! BITS Pilani Alumnus Sparks Debate - 'Hair Loss, Tummies Popping Out...'

Bengaluru: A recent post from a BITS Pilani alumnus has ignited a discussion about the often-overlooked struggles faced by tech professionals in Bengaluru. The post, written by a user named Harsh, paints a grim picture of the work-life balance and mental health challenges that many techies in the city endure.

"Most techies in Bangalore are pretty lonely. Away from family, no real friends, stuck in traffic, high rents, children not getting good values, peers into status games, cringe tech meet-ups, shoves body with coffee & alcohol, hair-loss, tummies popping out & pays highest taxes," Harsh wrote, shedding light on the pervasive loneliness and stress in Bengaluru's tech sector.

Harsh's post struck a chord with many, emphasizing the urgent need to prioritize health and family over relentless work pressures. "It scares me even more that so many people relate with this. Consider this your wake-up call & take some action fellas. Fixed 1000s of jiras but your health & family is broken?" he urged.

Responses to the post revealed that this issue is not unique to Bengaluru. One user noted, "Isn't this the story of 'most' youngsters away from home in almost every city?" Another expressed a similar sentiment, saying, "scary to relate to some parts of it."

Most techies in Bangalore are pretty lonely. Away from family, no real friends, stuck in traffic, high rents, children not getting good values, peers into status games, cringe tech meet-ups, shoves body with coffee & alcohol, hair-loss, tummies popping out & pays highest taxes.

— harsh (@harshwsingh) July 23, 2024

Many shared personal stories, highlighting the widespread nature of the problem. One user recounted, "I also used to feel lonely like this. And I was not able to take care of my health at all. Then somehow I took up a WFH job. Then I was sick for a year because the habit I had developed in cities made my body not work. After that, I worked a lot on my health. Now I'm feeling better. I meet people. I stay with my family."

The conversation also underscored that this issue extends beyond the tech sector, affecting various demographics. "It's not just about the techies, this generation is through this mess. Whether they are students, engineers, working professionals, etc," another user commented.

The collective voices highlighted a shared theme: despite the allure of high-paying jobs, the pressures of urban life, traffic congestion, and soaring living costs are severely impacting mental and physical well-being. As one user aptly summarized, "Very accurate description, especially the loneliness bit. Then the anxiety due to traffic, poor infrastructure, and high rents further adds to the misery making one feel trapped and despondent in spite of a high-paying job, completely messing up your physical and mental health."

This candid discussion serves as a reminder of the need for a balanced approach to work and life, urging individuals to take proactive steps to safeguard their health and well-being amidst the demanding urban landscape.